Hey zusammen,
hier zwei sehr interessante Texte - aber auf Englisch...
How does your passive aggressive husband need you?
http://drjoannewendt.com/passi…anger-target-is-that-you/
Why is he doing all this toxic linking?
He has needs of love and connection as anybody else, but due to his growing up inhibiting his anger, he can’t learn
how to connect in a healthier way. At the same time he needs to be loved, he is managing strong fears of intimacy
buried deep in his unconscious mind forcing him to set barriers up to prevent a deep emotional connection.
He craves and fear intimacy, so he needs to invite you, -his wife- to be near and then tune you out when you are
near him by changing the subject. The closeness and intimacy provided by sex make him feel vulnerable again, by
bringing forth his deepest fears of dependency of a woman. This inner battle ends up warping any healthy sense of
being sexually potent and forcing him to withdraw sexually to feel safe again.
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The Boomerang Relationship: Passivity, Irresponsibility and Resulting Partner Anger
http://www.angriesout.com/couples8.htm
Schlaft gut bzw. habt einen schönen Tag!
La Paula
